This
page is an attempt to help you, the prospective buyer, prepare for the
purchase of a puppy. This information will, hopefully, help you
establish a better working relationship with your veterinarian and
your breeder. It is my hope that this information will help prevent
misunderstandings or disappointment after the purchase of a puppy.

If you are
considering the purchase of a puppy or dog and you do not have a
veterinarian that you trust and are comfortable with, you should
resolve this deficiency before finishing your hunt for a puppy.
Most reputable breeders will offer a health guarantee on their
puppies, but one of their requirements will often be that you have
your veterinarian do a "well-puppy" exam within 48-72 hours of
purchase. The reason for this exam is to assure (and have an
agreement between) all parties that the purchased puppy was healthy at
the time the buyer took possession of the dog.
Due to the common
breeder requirement of an immediate veterinarian exam, you will need
to have a veterinarian picked out before you purchase your puppy.
Be sure and notify your chosen veterinarian that you will be
purchasing a puppy shortly and that you will need to have that
puppy examined within a couple of days of purchase.
Remember that, just like a human infant, your new puppy is going to
need regular, high-quality health care for disease prevention and to
assure that the puppy is growing and developing as he should.
In addition to the well-puppy exam that your breeder is likely to
require, your new puppy is also going to need to visit your
veterinarian for its final puppy shots, a rabies vaccination and to
get started on its heartworm, flea and tick preventative medication.
If you are unsure of
how to find a veterinarian, ask a number of friends, neighbors and
family members for their recommendations. You can also check the
phone book and call specific clinics and ask for client references.
If possible, ask one or two veterinary techs and/or the receptionist
who they would recommend other than their current boss.
You can also check with groomers in your area. Most groomers
will have information on area vet clinics that their clients use. I would also highly recommend contacting the local kennel club for
references. Obviously, if you live close to your
breeder, you can also ask which veterinarians your breeder
recommends.
As you begin your
search for a veterinarian, there are several important considerations.
The first of these is the clinic location. Be sure that the
veterinary clinic you choose is within a reasonable distance in case
of an emergency. Along these same lines, find out if the clinic
you are thinking of using offers emergency after-hours care.
Personally, I
hate having to use an "emergency only" clinic if one of my dogs has an
emergency health care issue. These clinics and vets have no history
with me, my pets or my pet's on-going medical issues, so I'm often
uncomfortable with having my animals treated in this type of clinic.
Another
consideration regarding "emergency only" clinics is that they often
charge 3-6 times (or more!) what a normal veterinarian would
charge for the same service. Emergency clinics usually
require full payment at the time of service too. This can place
a heavy burden on those with a tight budget and/or those with a fixed
income if their pet is seriously injured or ill. While a private
vet will often take payments for expensive emergency treatment if the
owner is an established client, owners going to an emergency clinic
could be faced with having to make a life and death decision based on
finances!
Of course, the
up-side of emergency clinics is that they are fully staffed throughout
the night. Many other facilities will only have a vet that will
come in for your dog's "emergency" care. Vet clinics that do not
usually have night-time staff will usually only have someone come in
to check on your dog every 3-4 hours after the "emergency" is
treated. Or the animal may go all night without being
checked if the vet doesn't feel the animal's condition is
life-threatening. This area of care is something you
should check into before deciding on a vet clinic. If you have a
strong opinion on whether your dog will be left alone after an
emergency or when critically ill, you should be aware of your
veterinary clinic's regular practices for these situations.
Personally, I
prefer to use a clinic that offers emergency after-hours services for
my pets. Then, if my normal vet feels that my pet's emergency
situation requires 24 hour observation or care, I can choose to make
use of the emergency clinic for that situation. I also like to
use a clinic that offers after-hours care because I feel that these
clinics many times offer better options for pet care. One of the
reasons I feel this way is due to the fact that clinics offering
after-hours services often have numerous veterinarians. More
than one veterinarian means that, in unusual or difficult cases, I can
get the input of more than one vet at the same time and at the same
place. While this may not entirely eliminate the need for
further consultation or outside evaluation, it can reduce the
frequency that additional veterinary input is needed.
Other information
that you need to investigate when looking for a veterinarian will
include:
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Expertise/Specialty
- if you live in a reasonably large city, you will likely be able to
find a veterinarian that specializes in treating small animals.
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Experience - your
chosen veterinarian should have a number of years practicing in a
public clinic that regularly deals with canine patients.
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Education - you
will want to be assured that the veterinarian you choose is a
graduate of a well-known, highly-regarded veterinary college.
After speaking with
friends and relatives and doing preliminary research on veterinarians
in your area, you will probably be left with 2 or 3 possible
veterinary choices. At this point you will want to schedule a
visit with the different clinics to inspect their facilities, talk
with the staff and to meet the vet or vets in person. While you
are visiting each clinic, check out the atmosphere in the waiting room and with
the staff. Does the clinic appear organized and clean? Are
the animals quiet and reasonably well-behaved or are they unduly
frightened or out of control? Does the staff appear
knowledgeable, capable and caring?
Remember to choose a
veterinarian that you are comfortable with and that you can talk to.
A vet that will take the time to answer your questions and address
your concerns (without a high-handed "because I'm the vet and I
said so" attitude) is worth their weight in gold. Another
important area of concern when choosing a veterinarian is whether or
not a vet is willing to refer clients to "specialty" vets or
clinics. You don't want a vet that will "make up" a diagnosis if
he can't find the true cause of a problem. (This is often seen
with skin issues - "It must be an allergy."). You also don't
want to choose a vet that refuses to consider alternative or new
treatments (holistic care/new vaccine protocols).
While you
are at each clinic, be sure to inquire and check out any additional
services, such as grooming and boarding, that are available through
the veterinary clinic. If you like what you see and hear at one
of the clinics you visit, let the vet know that you will be making an
appointment to bring in your new puppy as soon as you pick him up.

Your puppy's first
trip to the vet clinic should be fairly simple. The vet will
likely ask that you bring in a stool sample (to check for worms -
see
Collecting a Stool Sample
below), the puppy's
health/shot record and any other relevant information supplied by
the breeder. He will ask you questions about your pet's eating
and exercise habits. He will take the puppy's
temperature, pulse and respiratory rate and will check the following
areas for the specified problems/issues:
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Heart - abnormal
heart sounds.
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Lungs -
congestion.
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Skin and coat -
signs of dryness/irritation or parasites.
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Nose - abnormal
discharge.
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Ears - abnormal
discharge, odor or parasites.
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Eyes - signs of
injury, infection or defects.
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Mouth - proper
development and correct alignment of teeth and correct color and
formation of soft tissue.
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Abdomen - tumors
or internal organ irregularities.
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Rectum - signs of
internal parasite infection.
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Legs/Feet -
abnormal growth/structure/development.
Once your vet has
finished his exam, if there are no issues or problems that need to be
addressed, then you will need to discuss and schedule any
immunizations that your puppy is lacking or will need a t a later date. This is also a
good time to ask about flea, tick and heartworm preventative as well
as spaying or neutering.

Your veterinarian
will often ask that you bring a fresh fecal sample to your dog's
veterinary appointment. Even if you are not asked to do so, it's
often a good idea to take one anyway. Bringing a stool sample
to each appointment may save you an extra trip or two if your vet
should decide he needs one and can't get one in the office.
A fecal sample can
be as little as a small, fingernail-sized segment, or you may bring a
"log" or other larger portion of a complete stool. Sometimes
having a larger portion can be helpful, but a small amount is all that
is usually necessary. Remember that the sample must be fresh -
picked up within 10-15 minutes of elimination and either refrigerated
or taken immediately to the vet's.
You can pick up and
store/transport your dog's stool sample in any type of plastic
sandwich Baggie. To retrieve the stool sample, turn the Baggie
inside out over your hand. Using the Baggie like a rubber glove,
simply pick up a portion of a fresh stool (or the entire stool).
Once you have the stool sample in your Baggie "glove", use the other
hand to pull the top of the Baggie down and over the sample.
This will turn the Baggie right-side out and will enclose the stool
sample. Twist tie the Baggie closed (or Ziplock if you
used a fancy bag). Voila, you have a fresh, sanitary,
easily portable stool sample for your vet! (This technique can
be used to clean up after your dog on walks too).

At this point, I'm
afraid that I have to address a couple of areas of concern that relate
to the relationships between you, your breeder, your veterinarian and
your dog. I, and many other breeders, have faced problems
with new owners due to the actions/statements of certain
veterinarians. Many of these situations are a direct result of
the fact that most veterinarians are "general" practitioners and not
species, or more importantly, breed specialists.
A good breeder will
be a breed specialist and will have first-hand knowledge of certain
products, foods, treatments and care that work best for their dogs.
Veterinarians, on the other hand, usually have a general level of
knowledge regarding all types of dogs, from Chihuahuas to Great Danes,
and they may have a tendency to treat all dogs, regardless of size or
breed, in the same manner. Unfortunately, trying to
feed/treat/care for a toy dog in the same manner that you do a giant
dog is not always the correct course of action.
While some vets are
very open-minded and do not get incredibly uptight about a breeder
instructing their puppy buyers to feed a certain type of dog food or
to use certain products, there are a number of vets that feel a
breeder has no right to influence the decisions a pet owner makes
regarding the care/health of their animal. This type of
veterinarian feels that breeders who continuously offer advice to
puppy/dog owners are practicing veterinary medicine without a license.
These vets many times tell owners that breeders have no formal
training, so their opinions should not be considered as valuable as
their own advice. This type of vet often puts himself in
competition with the breeder for the respect and loyalty of the dog
owner. This type of vet may disparage the breeder's animal
husbandry practices and will often make the puppy/dog owner feel
guilty about listening to their breeder's advice. This
type of vet may also pressure dog owners into switching brands of dog
food or into having treatments or procedures that a breeder has specifically advised against. New owners should be aware that
this type of fanatical, professional jealousy does occur with some
veterinarians. This is a serious issue for dog owners as this
behavior can lead to serious conflicts and can actually create health
problems for your dog or may even put your dog's life at risk.
Another situation
that can cause problems when new owners visit their veterinarians is
that due to an overwhelming number of puppy-mill and
back-yard breeders, many veterinarians view all "breeders" as
poorly-informed, money-hungry producers of diseased and defective
animals. Because veterinarians see a large number of poor-quality, diseased and defective puppies that were sold to unsuspecting
buyers by unscrupulous "breeders", a vet may automatically assume that
your puppy came from a run-of-the-mill breeder. This assumption,
along with the above mentioned fact that few veterinarians are breed
specialists, can lead some vets to jump to wrong conclusions about
your puppy 's health status, development or need for medical care.
The assumption by a veterinarian that a puppy came from a "bad"
breeder may unduly influence the vet's evaluation of the puppy that is
being examined. Incorrect assumptions about where or how a
puppy was raised can influence said dog's treatment and could lead to
inappropriate care.
Please understand
that I am not saying that all breeders are perfect or that we know
more than veterinarians. Nor am I saying that all vets act in
the way I have described. I am also not suggesting that a new
owner should listen to their breeder and disregard their
veterinarian's advice. I am merely pointing out that the types
of problems described above have been known to occur (as detailed
below) and that I believe new owners should be aware that these types
of problems could influence their dog's medical care. I
also believe owners should remember that veterinarians are just
people, and like the rest of us, are not perfect and do not know
everything there is to know about every subject. I hope everyone that
reads this article can understand that this information is not being
presented to undermine the veterinarian/client relationship, but to
encourage owners to be more aware and informed of the choices
available for their dog's care. By pointing out problems and
issues that have been faced by others, it's my hope that future
problems can be avoided or minimized.
Let me also say here
that I deeply respect veterinarians for their commitment to the
welfare of animals and that I truly believe most vets have only the
well-being of their client's dogs in mind. I do not mean to imply that
you shouldn’t listen to your veterinarian or ignore his advice. You
should ALWAYS listen to your veterinarian, but I believe that when
possible, you should also check with your breeder and other available
resources about any health concerns that arise about your new puppy.
I think it is imperative that owners realize that THEY are in charge
of their animals care and that as the person in charge, it is up to
them to decide what is and is not appropriate for their animal.
This means that owners must use all of their available resources
(their breeder, their veterinarian, the internet, books, etc.) to
determine the appropriate course of action/treatment/care for their
animal. This means for day-to-day issues AND in times of crisis.
I would recommend
that, when possible, owners always do some outside research before
jumping off the deep end into expensive or prolonged medical care for
their dog. Remember, veterinarians make their money by selling their
services. If your dog isn't sick, the vet isn’t making money! Again,
I don’t mean that you should not listen to your vet. Nor do I wish to
imply that your veterinarian would purposely prolong your dog’s
treatment or treat your dog unnecessarily. However, there is usually
more than one opinion on how to treat canine illness, disease and
injury. Finding out about different options is the smart and
sensible thing to do.

To help illustrate
the reasons I have written this article, I would like to relate some
situations between new owners, breeders and veterinarians that I have
had to deal with or that friends of mine have had to address.
These are all situations that I was personally involved with or in
which I knew at least one of the involved parties.
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I sold a
10-week-old puppy to an older gentleman several years ago. He
called me back 2 days later very upset. His vet had told him the
dog’s tail had not been docked and would require a very painful and
expensive surgery to fix. This vet had told my puppy buyer that I
was a "puppy mill" and not a reputable breeder because I had
not followed the breed standard and docked the dog's tail. I
had to explain, and then prove, that his vet did NOT know what he
was talking about. The pup’s tail HAD been docked. It
was “show” length, not a stub as this vet believed was correct. I offered pictures of show dogs from magazines and
actual shows to convince the gentleman that his vet was incorrect
and that the pup’s tail WAS the correct length. I did, of
course, offer these same pictures to the attending veterinarian as
an aid in furthering his education about Cocker Spaniels.
Luckily the veterinarian was stopped before he did an unnecessary
$300.00 tail amputation!
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A number of years
ago I sold a young puppy to an elderly couple. Two days later the
gentleman called yelling and threatening me because his vet had told
him the puppy was blind! He said the pup would run into things and
didn’t seem to know where it was going. I tried to explain that a
young pup is normally hesitant when in a new place and that they
lack the necessary self-control and experience to always stop before
running into objects. He insisted on bringing the pup back right
then because he was canceling the check. His vet said the dog was
blind and I could not convince him otherwise. He brought the pup
back, with his wife crying hysterically in the background because
she did not want to give the puppy back.
Even though both
parents of this supposedly "blind" puppy already had current clear veterinary ophthalmologist
eye exams, I took the entire litter and both parents to my
veterinarian the next day for eye exams. I did not tell him why. After he examined all 6 pups and
the parents, he stated that as far as he could tell, everyone’s vision
and eye structure were perfect. (While this vet is not an
ophthalmologist, he raises and shows dogs, regularly has his
breeding dogs eyes certified and is somewhat more familiar with eye
defects than many vets.) At this point, I told my vet the story
of the buyers, the other veterinarian and the fact that the one pup
was supposedly blind. I showed him the pup that was returned
and he spent
an additional 10 minutes evaluating this particular pup. He
still could not find a problem with the dog's sight or eye structure.
One week later I had the same pup tested by a
licensed canine ophthalmologist and her eye structure and sight were
found to be perfect. When I called the couple that had
returned the puppy to tell them the
results of the testing, I spoke with the wife. She was devastated.
She had wanted to keep the pup even with a problem and said she had
done nothing but cry the entire two weeks since her husband had made
her give the dog back. This dog has had her eyes retested
repeatedly with no defects ever being found! While there
was no medical risk to the dog involved with this situation, the
puppy was traumatized by being taken to a new home and then
returned. The couple that purchased the dog was horribly
upset when they were convinced that they had purchased a "defective"
dog and were justifiably incensed with me because their vet told
them "the breeder had to have known the dog was defective."
In addition to the buyers and the puppy, I was traumatized by being
yelled at, cursed and threatened. I was also financially
impacted by this situation as I had to return the funds paid on the
puppy in question; I had to hold the entire litter until I could
prove without a doubt that all of the puppies were healthy; and I
had to pay for unnecessary veterinary evaluations and exams (for the
entire litter) from 2 different veterinarians.
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A
breeder friend sold a young puppy to a pet home. The lady called
back a few days later very upset and crying. Her vet had told her
the puppy was probably going to die as it had “water on the brain”.
The veterinarian told the buyer that his diagnosis was based on the
fact that Cockers were supposed to have flat heads and this puppy
had a rounded, domed shape to its skull that was a clear indication
of Encephalitis. He suggested euthanizing the puppy!
This diagnosis was, of course, ludicrous and in no way factual.
Luckily the woman called the breeder and did not destroy the dog.
Another veterinarian examined the dog and found it to be perfectly
normal. This "diagnosis" of a severe defect resulted from the
vet having no factual reference for the physical characteristics of
the breed. If the veterinarian had done any research on the
breed at all, this situation could have been avoided as the Cocker
Spaniel breed standard specifically states that the head should be “rounded but not exaggerated with no tendency toward flatness.”
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The following
situation has happened with pups I have sold and with pups sold by
several other breeders I know. A puppy is sold to a new home and
a few days later develops diarrhea. The pup is taken to the vet
and diagnosed with Giardia or Coccidiosis. The vet tells
the new owner that these
are “puppy mill” diseases, common in unclean surroundings and/or in
pups that are not well cared for. The dog is treated for the
disease, the owner is given medication to continue treating the dog
at home and the owner is charged $50 to $60 for all of the vet's hard
work of finding and treating this horrible disease. Of course,
the new puppy owner is now convinced that their breeder is a
puppy-mill and raises unhealthy dogs in terrible conditions, but
hey, the vet must know what he's talking about, right?
Well,
the vet may know what he's talking about, but in this case he only
gave the puppy owner a small portion of the important and relevant
information regarding Coccidiosis, Giardia and incidences of puppy
diarrhea. One of the most important pieces of
information that was withheld is that puppy diarrhea can be
completely unrelated to disease and is many times innocuous and
self-curing. Any changes in routine, diet, care, surroundings
or the ingestion of trash (people food, toilet paper, paper towels,
pieces of toys, string, grass, etc.) or excessive/unusual exercise
or changes in weather could trigger a simple case of diarrhea in
puppies. This anonymous veterinarian also forgot to mention that, unless your puppy was
showing signs of DISEASE (vomiting, anorexia, lethargy, fever,
weight loss, blood in the stool) at the moment you picked him up,
and unless you know that the breeder knew of these symptoms and had not
been treating the dog, THE BREEDER CANNOT BE ACCUSED OF
INAPPROPRIATE OR INADEQUATE CARE! A breeder CANNOT be held
accountable for illness or disease that is the result of factors
outside of the breeder's control. If you take a puppy home and
that action results in illness of the dog, then your breeder is not
responsible and could not have prevented that condition.
While strictly speaking
it is true that unclean surroundings can contribute to Coccidiosis
and Giardia infection, it is also true that if veterinarians
diagnose a dog with a clinical case of one of these diseases, they
should relate several other important FACTS to new
owners. These facts are:
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Coccidia and Giardia are common
parasitic organisms that live in the environment, in a number of
domestic animals and in humans.
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They can be
found in the feces of infected animals as well as in the soil
and in contaminated feed, lakes, streams, ponds, wells and
sometimes even in the potable water supply.
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These parasites are routinely
present in the fecal samples of dogs, cats, humans and other
animals (which may or may not show clinical signs of disease).
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Finding these
parasites in a stool sample is considered "normal"
unless the dog is showing signs of clinical illness - diarrhea
(sometimes bloody), anorexia, dehydration.
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Most animals infected with these parasites will not
be clinically ill or show signs of disease UNLESS their immune systems are weakened
or compromised in some way.
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The most
common triggering factor for clinical disease of these parasites
is stress - moving to a new home, shipping, changes in food and/or
water, vaccination, weather changes, weaning.
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These
parasites are considered an "opportunistic" disease which take
advantage of other health issues to attack an already
compromised immune system.
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Clinical
disease is usually the result of stress or another triggering factor
which allows the parasites an opportunity to
multiply unchecked.
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A puppy developing an
infection due to one of these parasites does NOT automatically mean the
dog was unhealthy when you purchased it; or
that it was raised in an unclean environment; or that the breeder
did not provide proper care, facilities or medical attention.
I had an occasion
where
a pup I had sold was diagnosed with Coccidiosis. The new
owners had not taken the dog to the veterinarian's office for
illness, the dog was being seen for its next set of puppy shots and
a routine exam. The veterinarian checked a stool sample
and told the owner that the dog
had a "severe" Cocccidiosis infection from having been
raised in unclean conditions. The veterinarian convinced
the owner that the dog needed a shot and additional medication to
take home. The new owners contacted me after this visit
and I immediately contacted the
veterinarian.
Remember, there
were no clinical signs of disease in this dog, nor had the owner
related that the dog was suffering from any symptoms of illness, yet
the veterinarian insisted on treating the dog for a parasitic
"infection". When I spoke with the
veterinarian and pressed for an
exact accounting of the infection, the vet admitted to me
that the pup probably did not actually have a clinical
case of Coccidiosis, he just had a few Coccidia protozoa in
the stool. He agreed that the presence of Coccidia protozoa
were NOT, as he originally told the new owners, an indication of
poor living conditions or hygiene and that the number of protozoa he
found in this pup’s stool sample would have to be considered
normal since the dog was not exhibiting signs of illness.
This was totally opposite of what he had told the owner!
Unknown to this
veterinarian, I had done a three-way call with the new owners for
this conversation and had asked that they not let the veterinarian
know they were on the phone while I discussed the situation.
Needless to say, the new owners were VERY upset to find out their
dog had not needed to be given medication and that they had been
charged for services and medication that the dog did not need.
They did, of course, find a new veterinarian after this, but they
were still out the cost of the treatment for the dog. I know a
number of other breeders who have dealt with situations similar to
this and in which the comments made about the breeders' animal
husbandry practices and the health of their dogs were inappropriate
and way out of line.
The stories above
are just a sampling of the “trying”
experiences I’ve had to deal with in over 20 years of breeding Cocker
Spaniels. Believe me, there have been many others just as
shocking or ludicrous. Again, my point with the
stories above is NOT to undermine the relationship that new owners
have with their veterinarians. My point is to encourage
new owners to use every possible resource that is available so that
they can take a knowledgeable, active roll in the decisions that are
made regarding their dog's health care.
Hopefully, having
read the stories above, new owners will remember that their breeder is
a valuable resource that should be utilized if there is any question
as to a new puppy's health or well-being. New owners
should also keep in mind that a good breeder will not consider it an
inconvenience to help their puppy/dog owners. A good breeder
will always make time to help and support their dogs' owners because
that is what being a responsible breeder means.

If you should have a
problem after taking your new puppy home (your veterinarian
diagnosis a serious health issue or defect), please try to keep in
mind that your breeder has more than likely done everything possible
to ensure the health of his/her puppies. Unfortunately, there is
only so much a breeder can do. Dogs are living, breathing animals
and there is actually very little that a breeder has "control" of
when it comes to the genetic make-up of a particular dog. It is
always possible for a particular litter to contain one or more pups
with a birth defect. This is just a fact of nature. Even with health
testing, a reasonable idea of the over-all genetic health of the
parents and the best of care and attention, a breeder could end up
getting a defective puppy. Sometimes these things just happen.
A reputable breeder
will do the best they can to screen their breeding stock for genetic
defects, but they cannot prevent everything. This is because many genetic issues are the result of hidden genes
and a breeder may have no idea that their dog is a "carrier" for a
specific defect. A dog that is not affected and
never shows signs of a particular problem, could be a "carrier" for
that defect and could produce defective puppies. A
"carrier" dog may produce defective puppies only when bred to another
"carrier" dog - each "carrier" supplies a particular puppy with a
defective gene and the combination of two of the same defective genes
makes a defective puppy. Or one "carrier" dog may pass on a
defective gene that can cause a defective puppy - such as a female dog
passing on the sex-linked gene that causes a male puppy to only have
one descended testicle.
My point with all of
this is that even a reputable breeder is not God. Choosing to
buy your puppy from a reputable breeder can help minimize the chances
of getting a defective puppy, but it cannot completely eliminate the
risk. Just as some humans can be born with a defect that is not
apparent at birth, some puppies may not develop correctly or a defect
may be found when the puppy is a few weeks or months old. A
reputable breeder will have done their best to screen their breeding
dogs for known health issues, but every breeder will eventually
produce one or more defective puppies if they breed long enough.
Some are fortunate enough to go years before they see a problem, but
others may see a problem in their first, second or third litter.
If you should
purchase a puppy and it ends up having a problem, try to remember
that your breeder did not set out to breed a defective dog.
Nor is it likely the breeder picked you out as a "dupe" to dump a
defective dog on. If you did your research and chose a
reputable breeder, then you and the breeder just happened to be
unlucky. So please, if you are
ever faced with a puppy that has developed a problem, try to deal with
the situation in a calm and reasonable manner. A reputable breeder will
usually be
more than happy to work with you and help you if you do not "attack"
them.